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Planning your child’s education – from embryo to 18

Can you plot your child’s every step on their journey through education? We take a look at planning for children of all ages and with a wide variety of parental ambitions to guide you through both the independent and state sectors and tell you what to plan for and when.
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Forethought to five

A handful of schools literally demand that you apply for a place as soon as your child is born, which means it’s never too early to start planning your child’s education. In fact, it’s a process that can start even before you’ve conceived – and that goes for all parents, wherever they want their offspring to go to school.

Pre-conception

Weigh up the pros and cons of September birthday babes – insomuch as you have any control over such things. Research shows their August counterparts can take a long time to catch up... although it’s different for those living in other academic systems – the Northern Ireland cut-off is end of June; in Scotland, February is the critical month.

'Before I got married I had six theories about bringing up children; now I have six children and no theories.'

John Wilmot, 2nd Earl of Rochester (1647-1680)

Conception

Congratulations! As you get used to the idea of parenthood, we recommend you start thinking about schools, especially if you live in London, where a handful of private schools demand that children’s names are put down at birth – another reason to plan the month of arrival with care. Come July the books may be full and waiting lists closed. At the same time as purchasing Your Pregnancy Bible and Book of Baby Names, consider investing in The Good Schools Guide (or unlocking online reviews): that way you will know exactly which schools to phone on delivery day. Oh and If you have the option of a C-Section, make sure it's September 1 not August 31...

The first two years

Enjoy your precious time with your tot. Babes love nothing better than lots of adult/parental interaction; there's a good reason why increasing numbers of schools are introducing 'happiness programmes' into the curriculum. It is also time to think about nursery/pre-school education. Give a moment's thought to your location and proximity to good schools, particularly if you might want to rely on a state primary. Your address matters with most primaries and you don't want a mad dash of a house move two weeks before the application deadline.

Two to four years

Time to give proper consideration to the school you want your child to attend and the education programme you want them to follow. If you're looking for a good state school, check to see if you live close enough to your first choice (see the catchment information on individual school pages and the geography of previous successful applicants) and that you fulfil the admissions criteria. If your preferred establishment is a faith school, make sure yours have been baptised and that you attend church, and make sure the priest notices.

We can’t overstress what a waste we think tuition is at this stage, but this has never stopped pushy parents from doing it anyway...

From 3 years of age – 2 in some cases – all children in Britain are entitled to free hours at a nursery. You don’t have to take a place but most people do. Settings vary; there are nurseries (including private and workplace nurseries) as well as play groups and pre-school. Getting a place in the early years department of a local school does not guarantee a place in reception there, though.

Many state primary schools have nursery classes for 3-year-olds but all children join reception during the school year when they become 5 – most now starting at 4+ in September. For more information see Primary school admissions.

The majority of independent junior schools also offer places from 3 or 4 years, many with phased entry. Admission hurdles are usually easier for younger children and fees are lighter too. Though bear in mind that not all independent schools will stick with youngsters who struggle later on.

Planning the primary school years

Five to seven years

This is the time for learning to read, write and count, with plenty of time for play.

Some private pre-preparatory schools use this time to focus on competitive entry to prep schools, but most simply ensure children are meeting their milestones.

Many children take up a musical instrument at this stage. If your son or daughter has a great voice and is musical you may decide to investigate a place at a choir school. Other youngsters take pleasure in performing, but don't worry if your child is a shrinking violet – not all stay that way...

Potential difficulties, such as dyspraxia and dyslexia, may also start to come to the fore... if your child shows any signs of this – or finds socialising with others traumatic, avoids eye contact or gives you any other cause for concern – talk to their teachers. If there are problems, early intervention can make a huge difference.

'Now I am 6 I'm clever as clever so I think I'll be 6 for ever and ever.'

A A Milne

Seven to 11/13 years

Learning begins in earnest now. Some children move from state infant to junior school at 7, though most stay at the same school from 4-11; some in the independent sector move from pre-preps to preps at 7 or 8. This is also the youngest age at which most schools will accept boarders.

Once your child reaches 8, you should start to think about secondary education, especially if you are considering a selective school – whether state or private. State primary schools don’t generally prepare their children for 11+ exams, so if you’re not confident about your ability to help, start looking around for a tutor. Many of the popular ones get booked up years in advance.

Schools will tell you it's a simple matter of taking verbal and non-verbal reasoning tests for which you cannot prepare, but the burgeoning of books, websites, and tuition companies, promising 11+ success, show this advice is universally ignored. If you intend to bring in the professionals, see our section on Tutors and Tutoring.

If your child is at a private prep school, whether aiming to move on at 11+ or 13+, the school should have it all under control, with exam preparation covered and advice on the most suitable secondary options. But it’s not too early to start arranging visits. The Good Schools Guide lists entry criteria and, often, what heads are looking for.

If you are hoping for a faith school place and are not attending church weekly, you may already be too late – popular schools such as Grey Coat Hospital or The London Oratory School demand at the very least five years of weekly attendance for their faith places. Other faith senior schools prioritise applications from children at faith primaries.

Perfect 10?

If you've not yet done so, ten is the age to register for most senior private schools. Armed with your Good Schools Guide, you and your child’s school should by now have a fair idea not only of where your child's talents lie but also the type of environment that will best suit them.

Thoroughly research schools – open evenings are a great starting point and will give you a feel for a school. If you're interested in school performance (that's exams including drama!), The Good Schools Guide online provides detailed examination and value-added reports on virtually all English state secondary schools. These reports not only look at overall results but identify how good a school is for a child like yours – whether the brightest, above average, just below, struggling or with special educational needs.

If your child has a learning or other difficulty that is likely to require extra time or other exam concessions, commission a report by an educational psychologist. You’ll need to have your child re-examined within two years of any public exam and show an established pattern of extra time (or other concession) being granted and used in examinations.

Selective state secondaries (grammar schools) all set 11+ exams, mostly in the September of year 6 (you generally have to register in the summer term of year 5, so don’t miss out). Selective independents generally set entrance exams for entry at 11+ and/or 13+. Growing numbers of boys’ schools in particular set pre-tests at 10 or 11 for 13+ entry.

Eleven – the age of change?

This is the time when most children in English state schools move on to secondary school. Some will move onto selective (grammar) schools and a few state comprehensive schools are allowed to offer a set percentage of places according to their specialism (most commonly sport or music). State grammar schools choose by ability. Some schools select through faith (or, as cynics might say, via 'the back door'). State boarding schools can select boarders according to boarding needs and suitability to board (but the boarding element has to be paid for). Most non-selective state schools give priority to siblings and those who live closest, with some operating ballots.

Girls' private schools and a growing number of co-ed private schools also have their main entry at 11.

Age 11 and moving on to senior school

11 to 13 years

For many, these are the years dedicated to getting used to senior school, making new friends and learning new subjects. For a cosseted few, these are the final years of prep school life, with responsibility borne by many big fish in little ponds. Here, pupils continue to enjoy the discourse of Latin and Greek interspersed with the delightful distractions of tree-climbing, prefect duties, toast and muffins. The brightest will be challenged, stretched, pummelled and kneaded by the demands of scholarship work – the rest will plough through every past CE paper, perfecting examination techniques to ensure they don't blot their copy. This is really where the prep in 'preparatory' shines through. Preparing pupils for senior school (traditionally the illustrious independent schools) is what these two years are all about.

13+

For some a non-year: no exams, no sense of direction or purpose, no light at the end of the tunnel; for others, this is a 'new year'. Youngsters who transfer schools at 13+ have a whole new regime to adapt to: new subjects to try, new teachers to test, new friendships to spawn. Yet this year is crucial; come summer most youngsters will have chosen their GCSE options, ready to embark on courses that will begin to shape their futures.

14 to 16: the age of examination

GCSEs, in all their various guises, get into full swing now.

If a change of school or schooling environment is in the offing, make sure you are ready to apply in the September/October before the year of entry. Sixteen is a popular time to transfer from school to college or from one school to another. In some areas state secondary schools do not have sixth forms so staying put may not be an option.

Those finessing the system may find 16 the ideal time to move schools. Transferring from independent to state school education has its supporters but anyone hoping to cash in on the perceived bias towards offering pupils from state schools lower university offers should think again – it probably won't happen!

Despite what headteachers at girls' schools may tell you, 16 is a popular time for girls to swap single-sex education for co-ed. Many boys change schools at this stage too, whether from boarding to day or school to sixth-form college. Don’t consider a change without consulting The Good Schools Guide.

Sixth former to student – when study gets serious

Leaving full-time education at 16 is a path taken by a small minority – some leave for apprenticeships or study part-time but full-time education in sixth form is the norm. Advanced qualifications, whether vocational or A levels, IB, and all the various permutations of examinations, need to be meticulously mulled over. Gone are the days when it was simply about finding the right school and ideal environment; you now need to ensure option choices are possible, viable, and sensible. A wrong decision at this stage could have significant consequences for future degree and career choices.

'Little children headache, big children heartache.'

Italian proverb

If your child is aiming for Oxbridge, check the A level ‘facilitating’ subjects list. While top universities have formally disavowed the idea of facilitating subjects, there is still, in reality, a hierarchy of subjects and you want to make sure your child picks the ones which will give them the best chance. If a career in the media beckons, English will open more doors than the less taxing 'media studies', and economics will lead to greater entrepreneurial opportunities than business studies... if in doubt, check out degree requirements and their compulsory and preferred subject choices, or speak to an adviser at The Good Schools Guide Education Consultants.

Sixth forms and sixth-form colleges are the choice of most, but a few opt for crammers and tutorial colleges. As exams approach, revision courses gain in popularity and tuition is once again embarked on by those worried about making the grade or wanting help/advice on university entrance exams – especially LNAT, BMAT, and similar selectors. This is also the ideal age to garner work experience and ensure sufficient, relevant skills to pack a punch on the UCAS application.

Time for those so inclined to choose a university, find an apprenticeship, plan a gap year, possibly with an internship in the mix, or enter the world of work. Research and planning should be well under way so plans become a reality before school days come to an end. A number of companies offer paid internships; many more expect you not only to work for free but to keep yourself while you do it.

For those in the independent sector, school fees are about to give way to university costs, though you don’t have to pay back your student loan until you have graduated and are earning a certain amount (currently £25,000 for new graduates – although different arrangements exist for the various student loans issued in the UK). Financial help may be available so check what universities are offering, but remember tuition fees are not the only expense: Increasingly, luxurious halls of residence charge mouth-watering rents.

Eighteen: coming of age

Work, gap year, university or, for an unlucky few, resits.

Crammers offer students the chance to improve on their grades. But while there are some great institutions, be warned there are a few sharks too – so choose with care. 

For most this is an exciting time when they can truly spread their wings.

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